Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, no matter what the group is the collision of different personality characteristics, how do you keep your body clean and not to be used as a shield by the biased people (villain) in the workplace. There are most of such kind people in the workplace. They are not afraid of having a lot of work, but they are afraid that the villains will make trouble, which will seriously affect the workplace mood. For this reason, here are a few summary of how at the workplace you should deal with the villains.
First, the biased one in the workplace is a great help for you to continuously improve your job. The more you do your job, the less chance the villain will have. Second, keep improving your skills, keep your skills out of the standard of the general public, and let the capitalists demand you, so that it will be difficult for the biased person to attack you.
Be gentle with biased one:
Always maintain a neutral attitude to all colleagues in the company when discussing matters, pay attention to hiding personal emotions, and treating everyone with gentleness is also the basic principle. Cultivate your own ability to deal with workplace conflicts, not easily get angry, and gradually pack yourself up. The workplace does not allow unsophisticated noob.
Be an audience of others:
The advantages of being an audience of others:
- You can grasp the basic situation of the company’s personal connections and avoid falling into the embarrassing trap.
- People’s subconscious needs to be recognized by others and become an audience of the villain. He will ignore your existence.
- You can get relevant work experience and ways of doing things from the words of others.
Willing to suffer:
The willingness to suffer is mainly reflected in doing things. Doing more can not only make the villain laugh, but also make yourself gradually improve. The more you care about later in the workplace, the more difficult it will be to get help from others, and it is easy to be taken advantage of by the biased one.
Find others’ highlights:
Everyone likes to be praised, and the villain is no exception. Praising a colleague can help you become more integrated into the group and get help. Complimenting a villain is also beneficial; it also reflects a person’s ability to express themselves. Compliments should not be too perfunctory and require appropriate matters. Mildly stimulating but not excessive.